March Madness is prime time for Melissa Barlow 鈥87.
Decades after she played point guard on standout teams of the 1980s, Barlow still runs the floor as an NCAA Division I women鈥檚 basketball official.
How good is Barlow?
She has called 10 Final Fours and three NCAA championship games, assignments that are earned through round-by-round reviews by officiating supervisors: The refs survive and advance, much like the teams.
She has been yelled at by the best in the business鈥攖he late Pat Summitt of Tennessee, Geno Auriemma of Connecticut鈥攁nd can laugh it off later. Barlow calls it as she sees it and then handles the complaints and cajoling.
Two Unexpected Careers
For years, officiating was a sidelight to a highly successful career in the pharmaceutical industry that enabled Barlow to retire at 53 from her job as national sales director for the metabolic division of AbbVie. There was more overlap than you might imagine.
鈥淎 lot of things I was learning at my corporate job in sales [apply to officiating], because officiating is a lot like sales: It鈥檚 communication; it鈥檚 talking to people,鈥 Barlow says after calling a game at UCLA鈥檚 Pauley Pavilion where she got an occasional earful from Bruins Coach Cori Close鈥攅ven when she was nowhere near her.
鈥淲hen Cori Close is trying to ask me a question from across the floor, I鈥檓 like, 鈥業 can鈥檛 talk to you from here; I鈥檒l talk to you when I get over there,鈥欌 Barlow says. 鈥淚鈥檝e been lucky enough to get a lot of training in communication, in assessing people鈥檚 communication styles and matching your own. How I talk with Cori Close is very different than how I talk with Tara VanDerveer [of Stanford]. They鈥檙e two different people, and they communicate differently. That鈥檚 the challenge of it. That鈥檚 the fun of it.鈥
Pulling double duty when she worked a demanding day job while calling 75 or more games a season wasn鈥檛 easy.
鈥淚 think the most I ever did in a year when I was a bit younger was about 98,鈥 Barlow says. 鈥淚t was tough because I traveled a lot for work too. So I pretty much was on the road the entire time. And you know, the players will always be 18 to 21. I get a year older every year, so it gets harder.鈥
A biology major at Pomona, Barlow fell into two careers that weren鈥檛 on her radar.
鈥淟ike a lot of people, when I graduated I was not really sure what I would do鈥攎aybe go to medical school, maybe go to graduate school,鈥 she says. 鈥淭hen it was August and I鈥檓 like, you know, I better do something.鈥
Her father saw an ad for a job in pharmaceutical sales, and Barlow applied on bit of a lark.
鈥淚t was 1987. They offered me a job making $26,500 and I thought I hit the lottery,鈥 she says. 鈥淚 thought, I鈥檒l do this for a couple of years and it ended up I retired after 31 years. 鈥淚 started out as a sales rep and at the time of my retirement was national sales director for our metabolic division鈥擲ynthroid, one of the most prescribed drugs in the U.S., was our lead drug.鈥
A year into her career, Barlow knew she hadn鈥檛 shaken the allure of hardwood courts and squeaking shoes.
鈥淚 just love basketball,鈥 she says. 鈥淚 knew I didn鈥檛 want to coach, though. I knew I wanted a career in business.鈥
Her coaches at Pomona鈥擭ancy Breitenstein and Nettie Morrison of N&N Gym fame鈥攖old her she should try officiating.
鈥淚 went the high school route for a little while, but it was different back then,鈥 Barlow says. 鈥淭here were very few women, so I was lucky enough to get pushed pretty quickly into college and Division I. I think I was in [what is now] the Pac-12 within like four years, working one or two games.鈥
Choosing the Women鈥檚 Game
These days Barlow works games in six conferences鈥攖he Pac-12, Mountain West, West Coast Conference, Big West, Big Sky and Western Athletic Conference鈥攁nd the officiating coordinator for five of them is the trailblazing Violet Palmer, who in 1997 became the first woman to referee an NBA game. Barlow has called games with men鈥檚 professional players too, such as summer pro league games, but 鈥淚 just didn鈥檛 enjoy it,鈥 she says.
鈥淭he games were fun and challenging but there鈥檚 a lot of trash-talking going on. I can do it when need to, but it鈥檚 not my preference because it鈥檚 just not in my personality. Someone like Pat Summitt, I kind of admire that she had plenty of opportunity鈥擨 think they offered her the men鈥檚 job at Tennessee on several occasions鈥攁nd she never felt like, well, to make my legacy complete, I need to do that.鈥
Summitt, who won eight NCAA titles, died of early-onset Alzheimer鈥檚 in 2016. She holds a special place in the lore of Barlow鈥檚 career after Barlow called the 2003 NCAA championship game between Tennessee and arch rival Connecticut as UConn won its second championship in a row.
鈥淚 think I no-called a play and Pat Summitt just got right up on me and someone snapped the picture and it was in the Atlanta Journal-Constitution, and my mother was so upset,鈥 Barlow says. 鈥淒o you think she feels bad?鈥 her mother asked her. 鈥淣o, Mom, I don鈥檛 think she feels bad that she yelled at me,鈥 Barlow says, laughing.
鈥淚 always had it in my head that when I retired, I was going to email Pat Summitt a copy and say, 鈥楬ey, remember this game? Would you sign this for me?鈥 She came across as really intense and tough and she was, but she was also just really passionate and caring.鈥
Summitt鈥檚 early death meant that opportunity never came. As Barlow winds down her own career鈥攕he鈥檚 been lucky to stay mostly injury-free but knows she won鈥檛 want to run an average of six miles a game forever鈥攕he works to recruit more women who are former players to the field.
鈥淭hey all think they want to coach. They look at us and they say, 鈥榃ell, I don鈥檛 want to get yelled at,鈥欌 Barlow says. 鈥淚t鈥檚 not the major part of the job, but that鈥檚 what they see. I try to tell them: You get the best seat in the house, you get a workout and they pay you to watch these great games.鈥
NCAA officials can clear six figures a year if they work full time, Barlow says, but she notes they pay their own health insurance and travel expenses out of their flat-rate fees. One nagging issue is that officials for men鈥檚 and women鈥檚 games are not always paid equally.
鈥淚鈥檝e been around a while so it鈥檚 important to use my voice as a leader,鈥 Barlow says. 鈥淪o I approached one of our conferences, I won鈥檛 say which one, at the Final Four and said, 鈥楾he men鈥檚 officials make $1,300 more per game,鈥欌 she says. 鈥淭he games are the same. I鈥檓 not getting a cheaper rental car. It costs the same to fly, me or a men鈥檚 official.鈥
The NCAA last year addressed pay equity in the tournament, paying officials for men鈥檚 and women鈥檚 games the same amount.
鈥淚t鈥檚 getting better,鈥 Barlow says, noting that the Pac-12 is one of the conferences that practices gender equity by paying referees equally. 鈥淥ther ones, there鈥檚 still quite a gap,鈥 she says. 鈥淲e鈥檝e been fighting for that. It鈥檚 wrong.鈥
Despite the challenges, Barlow loves what she does and calls officiating 鈥渁ddicting.鈥
鈥淚t鈥檚 the focus,鈥 she says. 鈥淚t鈥檚 wanting to call the perfect game, which you never will.鈥